Important Watch this video on YouTube for the full experience and guidance on this topic.
Before you dive into this article, make sure to check out the full video on YouTube titled “He is Cruel. He Crushes you Mentally and here your Bad luck begins. Money comes in but goes faster.” The video gives an in-depth explanation of how certain energies and behaviors within your household, especially from a specific person, can create a cycle of constant struggle. Now let’s unpack this powerful topic and see how Vastu and spiritual awareness can help you identify and remove this block from your life.
The Hidden Enemy in Your Own House
There is a silent destroyer living among many of us, often without our knowledge. He doesn’t carry weapons, he doesn’t shout — but his presence alone is enough to drain your energy, kill your enthusiasm, and reverse your financial growth. Yes, we’re talking about that one person who constantly demotivates you, makes you question your worth, belittles your efforts, and showers you with negativity day in and day out.
Such people can be anyone — a family member, partner, relative, or even a friend who has made their way into your personal space. While we often associate bad luck with external events or misfortune, ancient Indian spiritual wisdom and Vastu Shastra point towards the energy that we allow in our living space as a major contributor to our fate. A toxic person with a cruel mindset becomes a carrier of mental poison. Their words don’t just hurt — they create a block in your aura, interrupt your connection with abundance, and make everything feel heavier. The money comes in, but it doesn’t stay. Peace arrives but disappears quickly. This isn’t a coincidence — it’s energetic sabotage.
The Vastu and Energy Link
Vastu Shastra isn’t just about construction or directions — it’s also deeply connected to the kind of people and objects that occupy your space. According to traditional Vastu beliefs, when a person with destructive energy dominates your home, especially if they sit in important spaces like the north (linked with career and wealth), it leads to a gradual decline in success and happiness.
This is why it's so important to observe how you feel around certain people. Do you feel exhausted after talking to them? Do you get anxious when they enter the room? Do your plans fall apart after they oppose them? These are clear spiritual red flags. Energy doesn't lie, and the body often senses what the mind tries to ignore.
In such cases, remedies are not just about changing direction or placing crystals — it starts with drawing strong emotional and spiritual boundaries. Start by minimizing your emotional reactions to their behavior.
Cleanse your space regularly using dhoop, camphor, or rock salt water. Keep a lemon in a glass of water near your entrance and change it daily — this helps absorb toxic vibrations.
Recite mantras like Hanuman Chalisa or Durga Kavach for protection. Vastu tips like placing a mirror to reflect the main door, using wind chimes, or having a red cloth tied at the entrance also help redirect bad energy.
You Deserve to Hold on to Your Success
It’s heartbreaking to see good, hardworking people struggle not because of a lack of talent, but because they live with someone who crushes their spirit silently, every single day. Remember, energy is more powerful than words. A toxic person can undo your hard work simply by existing in your energetic field too long.
Spiritually speaking, our surroundings are meant to uplift us. If a person’s constant presence leads to sorrow, fear, self-doubt, and a feeling of being trapped — it's not just a relationship problem, it becomes a spiritual problem. And when it turns spiritual, it reflects in every area of life — health, wealth, love, peace.
If you relate to this, don’t wait. You are not stuck — you’re being held back. Identify that force, take action to protect your energy, and align your home with positivity. Watch the full video linked above to dive deeper into this concept and apply the remedies shared. Because success should stay. Peace should grow. And no one has the right to steal your light.